Dear Future Bride and Groom,
As you begin the preparation for the Sacrament of Matrimony, please be assured of our prayers and support.
On behalf of the staff and parishioners of St. Mary’s, we extend our prayerful support for both of you as you begin your life together.
We want to help you plan a wedding ceremony that is spiritual and sacramental in accordance with the Catholic belief that marriage is a lifelong commitment and that it is a sacrament when it occurs between two baptized Christians. The planning and preparation for your wedding are meant to help you celebrate the Sacrament and live as a Christian married couple.
We ask that you read carefully through the document entitled "St. Mary's Marriage Guidelines." These guidelines are designed to assist you in the planning of your marriage at St. Mary's.
Those who are planning on getting married at St. Mary's should also review the information at the Diocese of Austin link entitled "Marriage Preparation."
Two documents worth reviewing prior to planning your wedding are:"Steps for Marriage Preparation" and "Notes on Wedding Liturgy."
We will do our best as a parish and a parish staff to help make your wedding day a day of peace, prayer and joy.
The Pastor, Staff and Faith Community of St. Mary's.
There is a Registration Requirement at St. Mary's: The couple (at least one of the pair) must be either living inside St. Mary’s Parish Boundaries or be an ACTIVE and REGISTERED member of St. Mary’s parish.
The pastor will also consider permitting a marriage and/or witnessing to the marriage if the parents of either the bride or the groom are active and registered members of St. Mary's parish. In accordance with Canon Law, this would still require the couple to get the appropriate permission from the pastor of the Catholic Church where they regularly attend Mass.
As a general rule the pastor of St. Mary's will not permit nor witness to marriages for any persons who are not connected to St. Mary's, as described above.
Contact the Pastor.
Contact the pastor at 254-753-0146 or by emailing him at: pastor@stmarys-waco.org. Please contact him at least six to twelve months prior to your planned wedding date.
Take a Personal Relationship Assessment.
At least six months prior to the wedding date, couples should take a premarital inventory, such as FOCCUS. This preliminary inventory will normally be administered/facilitated by the pastor or by one of the deacons.
Attend a Marriage Preparation Program.
Marriage preparation couples are required to participate in a formal marriage preparation course, such as "For Better & For Ever" or another course approved by the diocese.
"For Better & For Ever" is a couple sponsorship program. The parish staff will appoint a sponsor couple for your marriage preparation time.
Take an NFP Introductory Course.
Marriage preparation couples must also take at least a one-hour introduction to Natural Family Planning (full course preferred) in one of the methods approved by the Diocese of Austin, either the Billings Method, the Creighton Model (CrMS) or the Sympto-Thermal Method (STM). For more information concerning NFP methods see the "Natural Family Planning" page at the Austin Diocese website. To attend NFP classes in Austin, visit the Austin Diocese NFP Courses page
Remain in prayer together.
Remain in prayer together as you approach the day youwill take your vows. Remember that, despite all of thepractical preparations for the wedding, the spiritual preparations for the marriage are most important page
Prepare your wedding ceremony.
Use the Together for Life book to preapre for your wedding ceremony. You can select prayers, readings, music and other parts if the Mass.
Also visit the Together for Life online website and the For Your Marriage website and for more information.
Forms required for marriage at St. Mary's can be found at the Texas Catholic Conference of Bishops (TCCB) website.
The priest or deacon working with you in your marriage preparation will discuss with you what forms are required.
For those who are asking a priest from outside the Diocese of Austin to preside at the wedding, a statement of suitability is required to minister in the Diocese of Austin.
See this link: Guidelines for Visiting Clergy and Religious